Coming from an environmental background it bothers me the whole ‘alpha vs beta’ thing that infests the ‘redpill’ type areas of the internet. Essentially you are either a blood thirsty, no fucks given ‘alpha’ or a servile bitch boy beta.
There are massive problems with this, first of all is at its root it is a leftist type strategy of simplifying things into black and white: you are either 100% badass or you are a simpering bitch.
The off shoot off this is you have a majority of guys who are not ‘alpha’ trying to force themselves into these false stereotypes, which is probably why girls think so many guys are trash. ‘Well I cant be a simpering bitch, better start being a ruthless badass’.
The problem beyond that it is a white/black false dichotomy is that it simply isn’t true. There is a scale of these things, and even in wolf hierarchy there is more than just this. Beta’s are SECOND IN COMMAND and are ready to take control of the pack. They are not simpering, not servile.
This false dichotomy, most strongly seen over on shitholes like reddit ‘theredpill’ where psuedo-alpha keyboard warriors where unless you are ceo 10k/day you are pathetic. This is where the problem is, where is the ‘middle ground’ badass where maybe he is the upper manager of some company, someone like that could be attractive to girls but is UTTERLY invisible in this false alpha vs beta.
‘redpill’ knowledge helped me a lot, but it truly is ‘toxic’ (in a way far different than feminists would say) where it tries to craft people into this illusion they never will live up to. Instead of a realistic view of wolves where the social hierarchy shifts around, and losers CAN in fact rise out of bottom we are stuck in ‘either be #1 or go die loser’ type falsehood. No wonder so many guys kill themselves.