Porn will fuck you up, and I am going to talk a little about it, the nofap movement, feminism, mgtow etc. I have come across pretty hard on nofap in the past and to be clear, the majority of my argument stemmed from that the ‘nofap movement’ was almost entirely based on a shaming movement and the only way to ‘be a man’ was to fuck girls. Given that nofap was mostly a reddit movement, it was really weird the pua influences (that of ‘fucking girls’ = being a man) the were behind the scenes.
The mgtow movement was likewise destroyed by the incessant influence of focusing on girls (ironic). Missing from both was the personal improvement aspect. Mgotw sought to run from girls (bitching the whole time) and nofap sought to run to girls.
That being said, let’s get to porn and masturbation itself. First, realize that there IS a porn conspiracy – meaning one company, owned very likely by a jew, that owns nearly all internet porn. Giving away a very addictive thing FOR FREE. Whats funny about that link, is I must have tripped some flag as various crypto YKWs come out of the woodwork to protest about porn not being bad, I give no proof and so on.
I admit I have had a problem with porn in the past, and the longer I am away from it the more damaging it is in retrospect. It is insanely addictive, and despite my personal strong will I still find myself dragged back once in a while. People who think it is innocuous, innocent etc are outright delusional. The problems of porn are many, and its insane to think that seeing hot naked bodies every night is not messing up your ability to deal with reality. I know a lot of ‘alpha’ish type guys who see no problem with endless porn, or the big fad these days is ‘girls doing porn’, chaterbate, or various cam sites. How are you going to have a family or find a cute girl that even remotely compares when EVERY girl online has huge tits, a perfect ass that takes anything you put in it, can deepthroat everything and so on? You cant. Therefore, you won’t procreate. (((Perfect.)))
Porn (and masturbation) blow out your dopamine receptors such that regular life truly starts to ‘lack that edge’ meaning it is boring, routine, and sucks. It is easy to get stuck in an endless personal decline that mirrors society in that ‘real life’ sucks so you medicate yourself with porn, drugs and escapism. In your personal life you should strive to be completely porn free, and for most guys that means nearly or completely masturbation free.
Some guys will say ‘how the hell can you go without porn or masturbation?’ Well, here is a personal anecdote: I never had masturbated or seen porn until my early 20s (religious shame mostly) and while that may be hard to believe, try to give me the benefit of the doubt as I admit later I became addicted to it. The first time I ever sat down to watch a porn, I did it mostly as a curiosity, it was driven by some post I read about how big of things girls can stick in themselves, it was a little deprave admittedly, but it mostly driven by curiosity to ‘see what it was like’. It was so intense I orgasmed without even needing to touch myself, that perhaps should have been a warning of its potency.
It set me off on a dark path on mgtow-ism, pua random girl fucking, and in general a nihilism that didn’t exist in my late teens, early 20s. I am not blaming porn for all of this, but it is certainly a contributor. I noticed my own cardio was worse the more I watched it and so on. Keep in mind, I watched at most like 1/night but was typically like 3-4 times a week at my worst, so certainly on the lower end but I still felt like it was subtly fucking me up as much as I wanted to rationalize it away.
There is a CIA concept called ‘sliding’ or ‘sleding’ which essentially is that if people start getting close to some dark truth, certain words will trigger responses in that person, or people around you to ‘slide’ off that conversation path. Some of the most obvious are if you mention jews, anything with racist overtones and so on. Here is a humorous example of this: https://youtu.be/ejvjQ7LWW4w?t=4m34s
then skip forward to 6:12ish.
Regardless, porn also intensifies and outright creates fetishes, I think this is why gays, anal sex and so on are becoming so much more the norm. We start with something vanilla, then we want more, more intensity, more curiosity, then suddenly we are watching people get tied up, or killed, or multiple gangbangs etc. Keep in mind anal sex was viewed as a taboo (after all its dangerous and not procreative) yet very few guys or even girls would think its ‘weird’ to do, rather you see all this ‘ass eating’/fart smelling degeneracy everywhere.
Anyway, this has been pretty long, but if you are like most guys, try to reduce your masturbation and porn as much as you can. Dont say you will ‘never do it again’ as you will fail and relapse, try for realistic goals like 1/week or a couple times a month, that way you see actually progress. Again, from personal experience even though I occasionally still fail my distance from it makes it easier to stay away, and each relapse feels like such shit it doubles my efforts to go longer without it.
Do this FOR YOURSELF. Not so you get a gf, not so you get laid or whatever. Do it so your dopamine receptors can heal and you can enjoy life again instead of being medicated against your will.