I recently realized a trap that many modern women are destroyed by: the illusion of independence.
I have known a few really cool young girls(18-21ish) who are what you would consider catches: kind, feminine, likes to cook, good with animals, likes outdoors, easy to please and so on.
Every one of them went to college and got destroyed. It’d be easy to blame feminism, so I will partly, but the reality is our culture tells girls that they can go it alone and they are better for it, and that it is guys who are dragging them down.
Of course most girls cant go it alone. One girl I knew had like 100k from some settlement she was in, and she doesn’t buy better blankets because ‘they are expensive’ and keep in mind she is smarter than most. Regardless, a vast majority arent going to make it without suffering alot.
So they suffer, and they get angry, then they look for someone to blame. Culture tells them guys, so they blame them.
They were set into a trap they couldn’t win, and when they lost they perpetuate the problem. Seen it before. Sad.