A girl is just a girl

I don’t talk about girls much anymore, esp. given the way this blog started.  I guess that is the natural flow of a lot of redpill writers.

I recently have completed over a 30 day pure monk mode challenge, essentially it is no sex, no porn, masturbation etc.  Any guy knows how hard this is.  Further, I have abstained from chasing girls at all, no online dating, no flirting and so on.  I really needed it, I feel like my mind is reset to a pretty good place.

It is really easy to give into the hate.  I know I did.  You can read the first 2-3 years which was mostly rage at the injustice.  This is where the mra, mgtow movements come from.  I considered myself mgtow for years, but I don’t anymore.  I will talk about it some other time, but essentially it was a loser mentality.

I had wrote something similar years ago: https://eruditeknight.wordpress.com/2014/05/23/a-punch-is-just-a-punch-a-girl-is-just-a-girl/

I kind of got it back then, but not to the same level.  I used to be really angry that girls have to DO SHIT and can skate through life with endless attention and free rides.  It pissed me off so bad, that is a major undercurrent of hate in the MGTOW movement, is that a girl merely needs to look cute (and usually not even that) and will have thousands of followers, endless free dinners, new guys, new cocks…

But…that is the way they are.  They are more like NPCs in videogames.  They get the attention but don’t really achieve much in life.  They dont philosophize, they don’t invent, they don’t conquer…which btw feminists how many years of this shit do you need to finally actually have girls ‘do’ something?

If I was a spirit and was given the choice between a man and a woman, I would choose man everytime.  I don’t get the ‘easy mode’ life, but instead I can think critically, I can live a life of my own choosing, I can have highs and lows that a woman would never understand.  I win or lose by my hands alone, not getting carried.

Schopenhauer was a great philsopher no one has heard of, his quote here is appropriate:

You need only look at the way in which she is formed, to see that woman is not meant to undergo great labor, whether of the mind or of the body. She pays the debt of life not by what she does, but by what she suffers; by the pains of child-bearing and care for the child, and by submission to her husband, to whom she should be a patient and cheering companion. The keenest sorrows and joys are not for her, nor is she called upon to display a great deal of strength. The current of her life should be more gentle, peaceful and trivial than man’s, without being essentially happier or unhappier.

Women are directly fitted for acting as the nurses and teachers of our early childhood by the fact that they are themselves childish, frivolous and short-sighted; in a word, they are big children all their life long–a kind of intermediate stage between the child and the full-grown man, who is man in the strict sense of the word.”



8 thoughts on “A girl is just a girl

  1. Wow, I hadn’t read your old piece. That was good stuff.

    I know Schopenhauer. He was an inspiration to Nietzsche, in fact, his direct predecessor.

  2. Beautifully written. I think that going Mgtow can be likened to a small death and experiencing the stages of grief.
    No matter how you get there it’s important to accept that no one can change womankind

  3. Lmfao why do you say women are meant to be emotionally weaker but then in the same topic condemn then for being emotionally and physically weaker perse? Women do plenty of accomplishments. I dont have a list hand but there are numerous jobs women that are activist in the world and accomplishing.

    Women are more behind the scenes but that doesn’t make them any less important or emotionally weaker. Men are the babies not women. Lol the controversy. Hahaha The reason men get so any is because they are throwing a tantrum like a child cause they can’t get their way. Only the young guys are bitter as you said a loser mentality.

    Women just learn to accept things and men learn to accept things and nobody ever gets their way all the time. Ever. Life is full of triumphs and failures for both depending on what they are pursuing. What really makes a difference is how you perceive these failures and triumphs and the journey of the soul through life.

    It has nothing to do with material gain but spiritual gain. Every human will eventually gave trial and tribulations that call for their attention and depending on what they have learned in their journey will cause for their emotional reaction towards that experience.

    We all get streaks of bad luck and make bad mistakes but the people who go out and experience life more will ultimately have a greater ordeal of mistakes and accomplishments under their belt. Men imo feel control and power are what makes you strong but really it is how you handle lifes turbulances that determine your achievement. Not what you had but what you have to show for all the years on this planet.

    Women fall into emotional vortex with a man because he needs power and control to feel like a real man she only needs love to feel like a woman. So men need more and therefore are disappointed more when they cant get all they feel they deserve whether or not they have actually done anything substantially important is a while others thing.

    People who tend to get cause in the ad hominem attacks and pedantics of life when all comes crashing down are the ones who are the least grateful for anything they have ever received.

    We should all be focusing on growing emotionally and having a more fulfilling experience in life then trying to argue over who is better or more happy. Who cares if anyone is happy isnt that the entire point of life is to be happy in whatever we are doing and making others happy as well. I am so confused what your mind is saying to yourself as you wake up everyday??

    You are contemplating who is more happy and if it is justified if someone else is is happier than you? That beguiled me completely why you waste your life on the pendantics of the world and not on finding your own true happiness. Who cares what others are doing. Do what makes you happy! Congrats on the monk thing. Sounds cool.

  4. Wow, this is on point. I would imagine that most women who are sensitive about their ego would be upset about this perspective, but it’s very true. Women are not meant to be equal to men, and they will always be better as long as they submit to a man. They should learn to stop worrying about stupid bullshit that causes drama and irritation.

    So long as women think they need to be equal or seize opportunities to take control and resist a man’s dominance, they will have trouble with relationships. A good woman submits to a man, and a good woman does not fall for an immature man.

    When someone needs something of someone to be happy, and therefore attracted to them, that in itself is immaturity. But so is nagging and letting things that don’t matter bother you.

    This article was beautifully written!

    • Thanks, glad you enjoyed it. This blog essentially turned into a diary of sorts about my path with women. The more I focused on them, the more my life went to shit. It was only focusing on myself that it got better.

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