MGTOW is a growing, disorganized resistance against the feminist model that is taking over our world. What I want to talk about today, is making sure your reasons are actually checked and legitimate.
First, there is a massive conversation on https://eruditeknight.wordpress.com/2013/02/08/trying-to-not-give-up-on-women-but-i-really-dont-give-a-shit with over 450+ comments, carried mainly by Mickey and Bill, they brought up a video to me of Captain Capitalism talking about MGTOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_mDvkWEQnQ which he delineated some different reasons, I want to expand on that.
Essentially, in his video, and I agree with the general breakdown is there are three types of men that fall into MGTOW, the veteran/burned, the intellectuals, and the losers.
MGTOW is growing because it is a natural conclusion men will come to, there is no leader, and no general goal beyond the obvious: minimize exposure to dangerous females. Here is more on the disorganize resistance model: http://wp.me/p2YaVQ-fb
Now, to get down to it, the vets are the ones that played the game and got burned or destroyed. More extreme examples of this include males who get divorced from their perfect girl who is suddenly taking their house and their money. Typical examples are people like me who dated, ‘loved’ etc only to find the very thin veneer and the pussy on the pedestal is not worth the value or sacrifice.
Next let me cover the ‘losers’, the reality is there are some % of MGTOW guys that are losers and justify this by their identity with the movement. This is important with the ‘intellectuals’ as well, so I will be going into detail. There is a very fine line between the two, the intellectual is the type that has had very little actual experience with women, but sees their dad get raped by divorce, or maybe their best friend ruined etc and comes to the conclusion that ‘women aren’t worth it.’ There is a LOT of overlap with the ‘loser’ category. They to decide women aren’t worth it, and think themselves the intellectuals.
Now, my purpose is to not shame or send the losers packing, but to be honest with yourself. MGTOW is about IMPROVING yourself, hitting weights, entering competitions, writing books, making money…FOR YOURSELF. The vets get this, ‘holy shit I lost my heart, my money, my time etc….more girls are worthless bitches’; the intellectual ‘my dad was a hard worker and got taken to town by my manipulative mom, I see that trend in all women’; the loser ‘i’m not successful with women, but i don’t need them anyway.’
Here is the irony, I tell my readers to general have nothing to do with bitches anyway…so doesn’t that feed into the loser mentality? It does, but the key is how you get there. The ‘loser’ is a loser because something is not working in his life, his non-success with women is indicative of a larger problem, because the root of the issue is: if women came up to you right now would you take their attention? The vet/intellectual will say no, the loser says yes because they secretly want the attention.
The answer to what you are, is what is your motivation? The vet is easy, have you legitimately played the game and ‘won’ in some fashion only to lose catastrophically? The intellectual is a bit more gray, but generally a personal connection to witnessing someone get rocked, or putting two and two together. But there is the overlap because the loser WANTS female attention, does not get it, then like a child decides ‘they never wanted it anyway.’
Ok, lets say you are the loser reading this, would I tell you to go try to pick up women? No, but you need to be honest with yourself, you werent successful and rationalized that away; if you truly want to ‘be a man’ live life for yourself. Start hitting the weights, pick up a new hobby and so on. Yes your motivation was misplaced, but that does not mean you cannot be redeemed.