Something that is standard ‘knowledge’ in the sphere is the narrow range of desirability in women, namely them being hot – a range loosely 16 – 30, with the ideals on the low 20s.
Now, feminists may scream, but biologically girls lose fertility fairly fast, by 30 the chance to have a miscarriage is doubled, then you have chromosome abnormalities that start appearing in the 30s etc (http://umm.edu/health/medical/pregnancy/specialcare-pregnancies/later-age-pregnancy). Women generally do not age well either.
I do not say this gleefully, it would be awesome to have 40 year old women as hot as 20. Unfortunately it is not reality. Now…I have said this again and again, exceptions do not prove a rule. Are there hot 30 year olds? Yes. Are there hot 40 year olds? Yes. I am sure there are 40 year olds that can fuck better than a hot 20 year old.
What has been interesting to me is watching women I know come to the Wall (about age 30 conventionally). I am going to give three short anecdotal stories about how narrow the window for pleasure is, and how they rarely come to grips with reality.
One was this very very rich girl I knew in college, she was moderately attractive, and she rode the cock carousel very hard. She also predictably was into drugs too, hard stuff, like cocaine. She was a feminist like every girl at my school, but idk maybe it was empowering or whatever to be riding a new rail every weekend. She constantly bragged about being in 3 ways, gangbangs etc. She was also like 5 years older than me. Fast forward to now, she is now slammed hard into the wall, I cut her out of my life a while ago, but a friend who keep in contact tells me about how much she bitches about ‘men are just users’ and ‘only care about looks’ etc. Evidently this wisdom came after some coke binge, after which only one guy was around, likely she mistook his stupor for wanting to cuddle. Doesnt have a problem fucking multiple guys when they find her desirable, but now shes a washed up whore suddenly its men’s problem they dont want her.
These next two are not about feminist delusions, because I am not longer in contact, so its simple about their appearance.
#2 was this dancer girl I knew, man, long legs, super flexible, never had a problem doing splits and other visual stimuli right in front of me. We actually would have been a good date pair, but I was pretty white knight back then and didn’t want to taint her. She was all about the free love, but had only had sex with 1 guy, so still fairly valuable goods as far as that went. Tall, lithe, danced and did yoga, she was pretty hot, my friends at the time practically begged me to slam her.
Anyway, I recently saw a pic of her, at like 29-30, she doesnt look much different from any other girl you would see at an office. Her lithe body now replaced with chubby arms, her coy face now deadened to simpler pleasures.
#3, This was one of the hottest girls I had ever seen, and I have high standards for ‘hottness’, another college girl, imagine your typical… well fuck it, she looked like this:
I talked to her a few times, she was really dumb. At the time it was deal breaker for me. I didn’t have advanced flirting or anything, the only thing I had going for me was confidence to walk up to girls and start talking. Anyway, she was so fucking hot, tall with toned legs, nice rack, pretty eyes and hair, the kind of girl our tribal ancestors would have got down with and just skipped the niceties.
Her sad story concludes only about 5 years later, that would put her at like 26 or something, she decided to do her hippy thing and go help 3rd world countries farm or whatever it is those organizations pretend they do. Her face was cracked out, her hair wild, her face plastered with a ‘I dont care how I look, I am women, hear me roar!’ kind of look. Really fucking sad, this hotass girl, a mix of abandoning her looks and perhaps time catching up faster on her than others. Sadly convinced that when she was younger guys liked her for something beyond her looks, and confused now as to why guy attention is waning.
This is both a warning to men and women both. Women, do not trade families for careers, do not think the paradise of your early 20s is how your whole life will be, and when it changes dont get mad at guys. Men, esp. younger readers, that hot 19 year old is not going to look so good at 29, dont think it wont happen. Keep this in mind when you consider things to do.