So despite this being the last week at my job, it was actually a damn good one, oh well. The post today stems on a interesting thing I am going to call the ‘Harem Effect’, and how I found myself at the center of it.
As a reminder, I worked in the forest, running a chainsaw and occasionally leading volunteer groups. This was a religious group from Missouri, flatlanders to say the least. One of the vans was too scared to drive the dirt roads, so I had to pilot the vehicle. I hop in (my hair is a bit shaggy right now, and havent shaved so have a beard, and I am dressed in camo) I get in ‘Hi im Erudite Knight, lets rock’ and slammed it into gear. Someone called me ‘Its a mountain man!’
The girls were screaming as we were taking the roads. During the gentler hills a girl in the back (they are like 18ish) asked me ‘Will you be my best friend forever?’ I laughed, when suddenly a different girl asked if I would marry her, and few others asked various things. I was thinking ‘ok whatever, typical dumb girl games’.
These girls between their screaming start asking me things about what I like, ‘what kind of music you like?’ ‘Metal’ ‘Whoa mountain man likes metal!?’
We get out, and all these girls flock me. What happened was that a single girl showed some (possibly just curious) interest, but then all the other girls seized upon what I call the Harem Effect. Which is basically if one girl makes it clear she is interested, suddenly you are not the ‘weird guy’ or ugly guy or creep or whatever. Suddenly every girl wants you. Undoubtedly it stems back from ancient history of the alpha male every female fawned over, that it did not matter he had multiple women, as a woman you wanted him too.
Throughout the day, any girl that was part of the group that was expanding would say hi, wave, ask me questions etc. I would hear little whispers of ‘hes so cute!’ or girls coming up and laughing telling me so and so liked me.
At lunch I took my hat and sun glasses off for the first time to the reaction of the girls, they said they wanted a picture with me. So imagine the scene, that of like 60 people, this group of 10 girls gathers up with me at the center to take pictures. Some guys tried to get in, and the girls screamed at them ‘its just us and the mountain man!’
It was energizing, and self-reinforcing. I had ‘hand’ ‘higher value’ or any of the other PUA terms out there, and it was so EASY to keep it flowing. I did not have to resort to beta moves. ‘So and so thinks you are cute!’ just a gentle smile, nod and return to work. Boom! Critical hit.
I was alpha to these girls, and because they believe I was, it was so much easier to keep it flowing, which only lead to more alpha. Feedback loops are very real, and in this case I was in a positive one. Even the moms were trying to flirt with me.
So EK dominated some young girls, big deal right? If you think that you are missing the point. Regardless of what society says, biologically, girls aged late teens-26~ are ideal in terms of fertility. I would have not touched these girls though with the rampart laws basically ready to jail any guy for even looking at a girl these days, but the point remains that absent of so-called laws, biologically what happened here could easily have been transformed into a success.
A lot of it had to do with the fact that I was in a position of power from the start being the ‘leader’. It is a fit of irony that in a difference situation these girls would not have even talked to me. But circumstances are huge in life.
As an aside, I can not believe this younger generation, they all have twitters, and instagram (I never even heard of that shit, I guess you upload pics of your face…stupidity). One girl was like ‘I put up my new instagram and got 50 likes!’
So think about this for a moment…this girl is fucking REARED on her stupid decisions (like putting your face on the internet) gets her REWARDED with dopamine fixes and tells her mind that at least 50 people (probably 48 of them were guys) ‘like’ her for this dumb shit.
Do you start to understand how fucking CRITICAL it is to not be like every other guy, to not be a beta chump for even a moment, to be a badass alpha who does not give a SHIT about her existence!? How can you possibly compete otherwise when a ‘selfie’ (which is a picture of your face from your cell phone…I despise the word) garners such support?
When the girls found out I was not on facebook…you know what it did? It made them intrigued. I wasn’t like other guys. I didn’t give a shit about being a clone like the rest of the guys they interacted with.
Truly, truly remember this, girls today are spoiled beyond fucking belief. But if you somehow crack that societal shell, underneath they are still just girls, with biological conditioning wired for ‘alpha’ guys.
An update on swedish girl: I called her yesterday, and we talked a bit, I asked if she wanted to meet and she said she wanted to but had to find her schedule out on monday because she was at a conference. I asked her if she could get a vehicle, and she said she hasnt met her host family yet. I laughed at kind of the forcefulness of the request what it might be interpreted as: ‘yo bitch, you are in my country, find a car and come see me’
She said she would call monday (when is the last time an american bitch ever volunteers to call?) later I reinforced her calling ‘Ok, well call me up monday and let me know’. I figure it is a good test, either she calls, and its on, or she doesnt, and it might not be over, but then I know the score anyway.
I was moving to end the conversation and she was like ‘Thank you for calling, I am so happy you called!’. It made me smile, girls could take a lesson in fucking showing some appreciation. I dont HAVE to call their used slutty asses. I said bye, and she was giving a long goodbye when I hit the END button before she had finished.
Those are the facts. We will see what happens. The situation is interesting, she is a cool (and hot) girl, but I am under no delusion this can not go anywhere. She is in town for only 2 more weeks. Clearly she knows that too, so I am not sure what she might be thinking. Girls, Sophia and Liz, any help here?