Alright america girls, listen the fuck up, there is a thing called receptivity, and I had the most amazing awe-fuckinging-inspiring encounter with a foreign girl today because of one simple: RECEPTIVITY
I have read a lot on blogs about the supposed superiority of foreign girls, and the trashiness of american, and while I saw the later, I had nothing to base the former off of. Supposedly they were nice, they were feminine, they cared, they weren’t complete sophists…
Today I worked with a group of internationals who go around volunteering around the world, and they were with my group today. To start this off, first was an american girl who worked on the ranch, I had met her before, and went to go talk to her. Merely opening my mouth, she looked appalled I was talking to her. Recalling a detail from last time (that we both worked out, doing HIIT) she was cold, turning her body away from me, and looking like ‘why the hell is this guy talking to me?’ I got the message and left that bitch alone. Typical american trash, I was trying to be nice and she gave a shit…because she was raised to be a little princess who everyone dotes on. No wonder ‘fake alpha’ game is so effective, I should have said ‘get the fuck outta my way bitch’ and she would have liked me more.
Fast forward, all the foreigners spilling out of the bus are smiling, joyous, and happy. And…what the hell, like 50% of these girls are cute?! Where is the diamond in the rough 1/50 or 2% america put up for cuteness?
We get about work for the day, and I am talking to the girls from various countries. They are nice, communicative, interesting, engaging. I start to hear rumors that Sweden is some sort of holy land where the hottest of people evidently originate from.
There is one tall, blonde hair blue eyed girl who is turned away, I go up ‘what country are you from?’. Oh yeah, and she is fucking hot.
She turns around, smiling a gentle smile, happy someone is talking to her “I am from Sweden!” Then get this…it is revolutionary because american girls never do this: she continued talking.
It wasn’t something like ‘where are you from?’ ‘New york.’ *sneer*/turn away
It was her answering my question, then fucking continuing to talk, and to ask about me. She had insanely open body language (if you dont understand body language, do yourself a favor and read a book on it, it will blow your mind) like her legs were facing, her arms were turned palms open, she was smiling and laughing.
Here I thought it would be a simple answer to a question and I would move on, turned to it me and this girl facing each other talking. She didn’t pull out a phone, didn’t look around behind her, didn’t give one word answers till the guy tired, she was discussing things with me like a human being…and it was sadly revolutionary.
I can not tell you how novel a girl with receptivity was, a girl I had just met. All the foreigners were like this, and this girl even more so. She was asking about stories of mine, if I had ever been out of the country, when I told her I swam the rio grande, and that is how I got to a foreign country she was saying how brave and adventurous I was. (As an aside, I haven’t shaved in about 40 days, so I got a legit mountain man beard going)
What I realized, was a critical difference here, say this was an american girl asking what I did, ‘Oh I hiked, once I swam the rio grande to get into mexico’ and the girl would be thinking ‘this guy is such a poser, look at him trying to impress me’. Conversation here has devolved to this weird one-upmanship, and saying simple shit like ‘I go hike mountains’ is inundated with subtle meanings, typical betaish because the girl thinks you are trying to impress her. It doesnt matter if she actually likes hiking, 99% of girls will not be like ‘wow, I love hiking too, tell me about x…” She asked about hiking and being a nomad, and I asked her about skiing.
She told me I should come to Sweden and she we show me around, or her friends would (in my mind I was like ‘yeah right, more fakes lies like most girls…’) and was saying stuff about contact info. Some guy swooped in, and I was like (here is where she disengages) but she cordially introduced herself, and rapidly turned back to talk to me. The guy whispered ‘I was going to tell you to go back to work, but she is hot, so keep it up’.
We walked around working a bit, and simple suggestions ‘here lets go this way’ were not met by bitchy ‘No, I think I will go this way’ defiance american girls instinctively have. We talked about a hour or more, and she was constantly laughing, smiling, and being energetic, it was not a slave energy-draining conversation like american girls are.
I asked her who was better out of swedish or american girls ‘its not close. american girls are fat and selfish. Swedish girls are beautiful, nice, fun, and easy going’ Well, I’m sold.
The end was coming, and there was a leader talking, and normally a girl would break off ‘just to listen’ but she was looking at me, and was like ‘here let me give you my facebook name’ me- ‘I dont have facebook’ her-‘oh! you are one of those~’ *smile* ‘here take my number and contact info’
and she wrote that shit down.
I asked if she wanted mine ‘Oh Yes!’ and I gave her my email, and looked at her whack number, ‘can I call this?’ her-‘here take my american number too!’ and then gave me a real fucking hug. Full body embrace, full of someone who actually gives a fuck. We said bye, and she gave me one more hug.
I was fucking ELATED. Now do not misconstrue this post, it is not EK’s new love…As I laid out in a personal diatribe of not giving a shit about women: http://wp.me/p2YaVQ-6u what was so UTTERLY refreshing and energizing today was that somewhere in this world there are cute girls who can talk to you without thinking you are a rapist, thinking you are just an NPC in their sophist reality, that you are just another step onto their feminist paradise. That there are girls out there who still can talk, can still be fun to converse with, girls that understand what it means to be feminine, and damn, a hot girl that gives out her number to that alpha american mountain man guy? Fuck yeah.
Swedish girls are taking the road less traveled, and it made all the difference. I think I might be taking the road less traveled…and it IS going to make all the difference.