Countdown: 5 traits of a MAN #3 Confidence and Ability

Today- Confidence and Ability

#5 http://wp.me/p2YaVQ-8F -Physical Traits

#4 http://wp.me/p2YaVQ-9G – Discipline

A good calm look

Today I wanted to continue my list of the countdown of what makes a REAL MAN, not some fake pua, not some fake badass that skates by this thin veneer of civilization, but of a man that regardless of circumstances will dominate.  In case this needs to be spelled out, this is a type of man that can succeed in this joke of society, and in the event of a collapse is the type of man that will survive and thrive.

That brings us to #3 Confidence and Ability, I purposely put these two together.  First of all, what do ALL puas state is sooo important?  Confidence, ‘fake it till you make it’ etc.  I do not doubt this works up to a point in getting some women to have sex with but it does not make you a real man.  You need true confidence, knowing you are the best, knowing what you are capable of.  It would not help you survive.

This is why it is related to ability.  You actually have to be able to DO something.  For all intents it does not really matter the skill, whether you are the best damn mechanic around, or you are a really good runner, you are a sharpshooter etc. you can have a real confidence because you have something real you can show.

To elucidate, fake-confidence is not rooted in anything.  You wear a funny hat or have a cocky grin and proceed simply hoping no one really calls your bluff of the airs you put on.  Again, in our society such a strategy is less likely to get you killed because of laws etc.

I read a really good article somewhere that basically stated the reason why posturing and false-confidence works is because in a dog-eat-dog or survival situation when someone acted like that they were really called out for it, meaning fights possibly to the death.  So we have engrained triggers that ‘oh this guy is acting like a badass, and he is still alive, ergo he must REALLY BE A BADASS’  Which we know is not the case.

True confidence comes from that when its put-up-or-shut-up time you actually put up.  You say you are really damn good at running?  Well lets race and see what you got.  You say you are an expert sniper?  I got a good rifle and am a good shot, lets go bet some money on this and see whats up.

When you will really be able to tell is if a collapse or something happens and all these fake-alphas are suddenly shell-shocked and looking bleary eyed at the world wondering how they are suddenly going to survive.  That expert sniper?  He already knows…one trigger pull at a time like all the rest.

Ability precedes confidence.  You can be confident and not really have anything to show for it, but it is simply a delusion, because it has no solid base.  If you lack confidence, go get an ability, improve your skills.  Start working out hard, learn how to shoot, learn how to fix things, and within a year you will be a different man.  Confidence occurs naturally.  The real kind anyway.

If you ever need a guide on what would make a real MAN think about a man about 10,000 years ago.  Was he peacocking around to rack up notch counts on a bed?  No, he was running, fighting, surviving and fucking girls in complete AWE of his power and poise and combat ability.  In truth I would be surprised if back then a ‘smirk’ existed, a real man probably had a very grim countenance while spearing down animals.  But you could see it in his eyes, he knew what he was doing, and had the skills to back it up.  He was the type of man that would shame modern day men, and modern women would probably swoon over him.

I used this avatar before years ago on message boards, and I really like it because anime-style drawing tend to capture emotions better than actual faces.  Look how the eyes are a very ‘i dont give a fuck what you think’.  THAT is the feeling you must achieve.  Your abilities are so good no one can possible compare.  If anyone wants to come try it, well ‘lets go…’.  You are going to survive anything life throws at you, this pathetic male in front of you?  He doesn’t stand a chance.

I dont give a fuck what you think

To understand the truth of male vs female (Birds)

I was outside as dusk slowly made its way across the land, while I heard one lonesome robin down in the valley singing his best as the darkness came.

Beyond just hearing its sweet sound, the song hit me with a deeper truth I had always known but never really processed.  It was in regards to male effort and female selection, and a completely inescapable conclusion.

Nature is a source of insight

What the conclusion I came to, is that despite all the feminist bluster about ‘equality’ and the truth of their ‘some are more equal than others’…they are right.  Yes…feminists real conclusion that girls are more important that guys is one hundred percent true.  And this mere robin was showing me this.

He was singing his heart out late into the night, trying to impress a female to consider him.  It was his ONLY way to further his genes.  Every female robin has so much of a lower burden on her, she merely has to choose, and genes are passed on.  The male must work, and is no guarantee that it will be enough.

The parallels to humans of course are obvious.  A guy has to do SO much and there is no promise he will be rewarded.  A girl can easily pull a guy in at will.  A lot of girls will decry ‘oh I cant get EVERYONE, there was that one guy that never looked at me’ cry me a river bitch, you flash your vag and 80% of guys will come running.  Guys spend their entire lives and are perhaps lucky enough to be ‘rewarded’ with some used goods that got impregnated by some other guy.

The power dynamic disparity is huge, and to not admit it is deeply deeply foolish.  A girl will be handed things throughout life, as a guy you will not.  You must take what you want, and there is still no guarantee you will get what you set your mind to.  But like that robin, you must press on, you do not have a choice.

Some of the searches that link here:

Hahaa, here are some of the more fun searches that have linked to my blog.  I don’t discriminate against anyone after truth, so the more in need the more I will help them.

breasts	3
thoughts of women about themselves	2
girls with nice boobs and big booms	2
big boobs	1
porn star who have bigboobs	1
just give up on women	1
woman with h size breasts gets naked	1
is oral sex harmful to an elderly man?	1
throat cancer from going down on girls when is it time to give up on women asian boobs vs european boobs 1 oral sexually for women   I think my favorite misspelling is the ‘big booms’ but hey, when you gotta go, you dont got time to spell correctly.   So I went to go find a pic of a hot girl for all my readers and with the search ‘nice girl with big boobs’ I essentially get 50% porn pictures, I turn on ‘safe search’ and what does it do?  Takes away the word ‘boobs’.  But yet I still get pics like this: Congrats google safe search, all you did was give me a false sense of security with your 1984-style censorship and now my mind is still poisoned.

Tough ‘titsday’ has feminists in uproar

Two posts today…

My friend shipped me this and requested a post about it, cross fit had a womans only class and called it tough titsday, and predictably feminists are in a uproar.

http://jezebel.com/this-is-what-happens-if-you-question-crossfits-tough-493110075

I personally despise crossfit, as I touch on in an older post http://eruditeknight.wordpress.com/2013/03/25/countdown-5-traits-of-a-man/ crossfit is indeed fadish, and simply a bad evolution of HIIT training.  That being said, it humors me that even something I dislike I see clearly the feminist paranoia that knows no bounds ravish institution after institution.

Some feminist was repulsed by the word, and suggested to the gym owner to change it to a more neutral word.  First…notice the standard modus operandi here of these hyper-liberals (as an aside,liberals today are mere charades of true liberalism, I hate that they have destroyed the word) that they alone have some sort of truth, and that THEIR opinion is therefore superior to yours.  Essentially, this woman asking to rename the class is telling the gym owner ‘I know you named it what YOU wanted, but I want you to rename it to what I want.’

I deal with this a lot myself actually, I do not hold my tongue as much as society would prefer, so when I label things (whores, sluts, feminists, pussys) people around me often decide that THEIR preference on how things should be called is superior to my desire.

So feminists are predictable, ‘rename it you misogynist pigs!’  Well…now the irony is revealed that it was a WOMAN who created and named this.  So get this next part:

Rachel wrote back that the series sounded fabulous, but she couldn’t bring herself to take a class with the term “Titsday” in the name, even if it was preceded by “Tough”

Hahaha, so get this, the feminist rachel (I am surprised she isnt going by ‘rach’ or something like that) could NEVER be objectified because of ‘tits’ but she will gladly take the moniker ‘tough’. Because thats how feminists are silly~~

Let me lay the rest of the story out.  The head guy apologized.  Feminist not sure if she is right, asks fellow feminists, concludes she IS right, guy then has to explain further (in a very neutral, matter of fact way actually), then gets tired of her shit and boots her out of his gym.  (His right btw, in case you didnt know)

What’s next?  If you predict feminist shriking, you are right.  They circle the wagons and start lambasting.

Various CrossFit-hating blogs attempt to explain why CrossFit is so creepy

If you are part of the cult and act like a cult member, take a step back and think about everything that I am saying. It is not too late for you to turn in your douchecard and to start eating cheese again. You can still join a crossfit gym and function in regular society, but it takes practice

Hahaha, I really liked the part about them labeling crossfit a cult, as if feminism and ‘drinking the koolaid’ is something feminists dont do.

So in closing, lets think what happened here:

Guy’s gym creates class = feminists mad

Guy’s class actually named/ran by woman = feminists mad

Guy apologizes = feminists mad

feminist asks friends if this is misogynist, they agree = feminists mad

guy explains again and boots her out of his building = feminists really mad

feminists start hate blogs about how bad crossfit is = feminists mad

feminists mad= society as normal

Tough titsday bitch

 

 

Jodi Arias walks (prediction)

So today the verdict is supposed to come down for the jodi arias trial.  I find the whole trail a convenient charade to distract the populace from the multitude of problems we face like our collapsing economy, international wars, REAL social injustices…

Is jodi going to get the death penalty?  Not a chance. Do I think she should?  She should have got a bullet a long time ago.

Oh, but she is such a sweet little girl who was a victim of that monster male she was in a relationship with…

Our legal system has long become nothing more than a farce where those with more money get off easier, and girls routinely get lesser punishments.  In a world where the evidence is ever mounting, it just does not matter as we legislate by feelings.  Jodi will join the great pantheon of those who were guilty and got off, among them the likes of casey anthony, and oj simpson.

To illustrate how messed up this whole thing is, reverse the situation, that it was the guy who stabbed, shot, and overkiled his girl friend, it never would have gotten national attention, and he’d be ‘guilty’ very very quickly.  All because of his sex and her sex the results are totally different.

A feminist paradise indeed.

A typical example of sheeple thinking online

I was trying to do some research about gun control because I do not like to take things as ‘truth’ just because someone says it; in this case that the supreme court ruled essentially the right to have ammunition.  I did not find the answer to it when I came across some guys site that I rapidly realized was a typical spineless sheeple.

(I wouldn’t give this fool traffic, but just in case you want to see what I am referencing)

http://bigthink.com/risk-reason-and-reality/the-supreme-court-ruling-on-the-2nd-amendment-did-not-grant-an-unlimited-right-to-own-guns

He gets to trying to paint himself as some sort of moderate and that it is only normal to seek gun control. ‘some real hope that a reasonable middle ground may be possible as America gropes in these polarized times for a solution to gun violence’  This is the kind of shit mainstream media dumps ALL the time, it sounds like it is reasonable right?  Well shit all we hear about it guns are evil, there MUST be a a gun problem right?  We just have to find a solution.  But…if you look at the stats all gun violence, there is just not that many people killed by it.  I think something like 16000 people died from ANY gun last year, and most of it is black-on-black intercity violence.  For comparison over 1,000,000 people die from heart attacks, or about 50x the rate people get ‘gunned down’.

‘ which pretty clearly says that gun ownership was specifically preserved by the founding fathers in the interest of the common defense against a tyrannical government (remember, this was the issue on their minds back then).’

Because we ALL know governments just arent tyrannical anymore right?  That would just be insane to suggest…

Anyway, this guy is a typical ‘I trust those in power at all costs’, unfortunately this is about 90% of the populace.  What really sealed the deal was another article this guy wrote I clicked on ‘Big Brother is watching, and I feel fine’.  He goes on to say ’78% of Americans say surveillance cameras in public places are a good idea’, I really dont give a shit if 99% of Americans think it is a good idea, he commits the all-too frequent mistake that somehow quantity of people believing something makes it true.  You know this is not really that much different than males who endlessly say how great feminism is while they get railed by it.  Just a sheep complementing his master.

But it was all right, everything was all right, the struggle was finished. He had won the victory over himself. He loved Big Brother.

 

More Okcupid feminism

I havent trolled okc in a while, but I came across one girls profile I just could not believe how steeped in feminism it was.  Allow me, Erudite Knight to translate this for you, both what she says, and how a guy who gets it interprets it.

To sum up, I am self-sufficient and independent and happy, so I’m just looking for a nice cherry-on-top addition in the form of a guy who also has his own act together. Friends of mine have told me that I’d be less single if I were less smart, or at least pretended to be, but I’ve been refusing that notion my whole life. If you’re scared of a lady with brains, I’m not for you. Also, you should grow a pair.

Girl: First sentence: ‘I’m a woman, hear me roar! Oh, and with following feminist doctrine, I know men are disposable.’ 2nd: ‘I am really vain, and I am going to be way smarter than you, because well I am just so great, guys cant compare’3rd: ‘Im smarter than you, I hope you realize that before you grovel at my feet’ 4th: ‘Btw, I want an emasculated man…but please MAN UP!’

As a guy: 1st: ‘Wow, what a typical feminist bitch.  You are so ‘great’ and individual like all the others right?  Why the fuck would I want to contact you just to be your cherry on top?’ 2nd: ‘Sounds like you are pretty fucking stupid, do you think any guy is going to be amazed “well shit, her friends tell her she is hot, she must be a god damn GEN-NI-ASS!”  Maybe if I meet her and she is really stupid she is just “pretending” to be so she can meet a guy.

3rd: ‘I got news for you, people who TRULY have skills, looks, intelligence do NOT have to brag or especially do these backdoor brags.  Yo, hey girl, my friends tell me if my body wasn’t as chisled as it is, and if I wasnt as badass as I am normal humans might approach me.’ 4th:  ‘Why, exactly, should I be growing a pair here?  Because you want a guy in some sort of near-slave capacity, and if I dare complain about it its because I am not “man” enough?  Why you don’t grow some breasts?’

Ahh, thats better

In her ‘Im really good at:’ section:

Seriously, if you message me with zero punctuation or the wrong to/too/two, I will be physically unable to respond to you. I’ll be too busy having an aneurysm.

Girl: ‘Never mind this is about you, I am just so damn good at punctuation, and looking for any excuse to disqualify the endless horde of guys I am going to get emails from.  But if some alpha really woos me, I’ll still take the dick even if all he ever texts back is “Lollzzz!!!zz”‘

Guy: ‘Uh, what the fuck bitch, this is what you are good at and you are making ANOTHER requirement to meet to be worthy of you?  Thanks for letting me know you’d just be another stress if I even bothered contacting you’

 

You should message me if:

you think you can keep up.

if you just think I might be kinda cool.

Girl: ‘In case you need one more reminder, I am really badass.  Like my fellow feminists, I am way better than a guy, I estimate about 1 in 10,000 guys is even close to me.  Did you like that final flash of wit?  Of course I am kind of cool.’

Guy: ‘Not interested.’